Prince Harry and Meghan Markle moved to California hoping for a carefree, sunlit lifestyle, but their journey has been far from smooth. While they sought a fresh start after leaving Britain, they encountered unexpected challenges, including struggles to make friends and Harry’s deep nostalgia for his old life and friends in the UK.
Harry’s Nostalgia and Security Concerns
According to royal expert Tom Quinn, Harry is reportedly searching for a property in Britain, aiming to have a place to stay when visiting his family. His relationship with the royal family has been strained since stepping back from royal duties, and his visits to the UK have been infrequent. The possibility of traveling with his family is complicated by Meghan’s concerns about their children’s safety in Britain.
A source revealed that Meghan has decided against accompanying Harry to the UK, including during his visit for the Invictus Games celebration. “She just doesn’t feel safe,” the insider shared, adding that discussions about increased security for such visits have taken place. Harry has previously disputed the Home Office’s decision to cut his security protection in the UK. His offer to fund his own security was rejected because British police cannot be privately hired.
Harry expressed his disappointment over this decision, saying, “The UK is my home… I want my children to feel at home there too, but that can’t happen if it’s not safe for them.” Despite the challenges, the Sussexes maintain close ties with some members of the royal family, including Princess Eugenie.
New Beginnings in Portugal
Recently, the Sussexes purchased a home in Portugal, reportedly near Princess Eugenie’s residence. Royal expert Richard Fitzwilliams suggests this could be an effort to maintain ties with select royals and potentially rebuild relationships with King Charles and Prince William. However, rumors have also surfaced about potential strains in Harry and Meghan’s marriage.
A source claimed Meghan is “deeply concerned” that the royal family might influence Harry into rejoining their ranks. She is reportedly open to the idea of Harry taking their children, Archie and Lilibet, to visit King Charles if security concerns are addressed. Having a base in Portugal may ease such visits for the family.
Separate Projects and Public Perception
In recent months, both Harry and Meghan have focused on separate professional engagements. Meghan has reportedly been affected by speculation surrounding their marriage and by comparisons between her and Harry’s public reception. While Harry has been praised for his appearances, Meghan has faced criticism over her comments and style, evoking memories of her time as a working royal.
PR expert Ed Coram James believes pursuing separate projects could help the couple rebuild their individual reputations. He argues that their joint brand has become “toxic” following their controversial Oprah interview and other public statements. “Separating their brands may allow them to redefine themselves as individuals,” James explained, adding that this could eventually pave the way for a new, united brand.
Renae Smith, founder of PR firm Atticism, agreed but cautioned that this approach might strain their relationship. “While this shift could work in their favor long-term, it’s bound to fuel public speculation in the short term,” she noted.
Professional and Personal Crossroads
Harry and Meghan have acknowledged they are at a “crossroads” professionally. Recently, Meghan attended a Thanksgiving event in California hosted by the Southern California Welcome Project and their Archewell Foundation. Meanwhile, Harry was in Canada participating in events linked to the Invictus Games.
At the Thanksgiving event, Meghan expressed gratitude for the opportunity to connect with Afghan women who had resettled in the U.S. She highlighted the initiative’s focus on resilience and storytelling.
The couple is set to reunite for the Invictus Games in February 2025, likely bringing their children for a rare public appearance. As they navigate their personal and professional paths, the Sussexes remain a subject of global fascination and scrutiny.